Dear Family and Friends,
As most of you know, Bob is in the hospital in ICU after some major surgeries this week (1st week of February.) We've created this blogspot so that his many friends, extended family members and students may keep up to date on his status and so that you may send him your personal greetings get well wishes. We will update this as often as we can and will also read your comments to him on a daily basis.
Below is an e-mail we sent out to our extended family and friends for whom we had an e-mail address. It was written on Thursday, February 5th. Immediately following it is today's update with new information.
On behalf of Bob, Shelly and their daughters Brandi and Jodi, and the rest of Bob's extended family, we extend our heartfelt thanks and gratitude to the hundreds of people whom have expressed their concerns and offered prayers on Bob's behalf. Please know that we have already witnessed a few miracles this week, and we hope and pray that Bob will continue to be blessed as a result of your faith and prayers.
Sincerely,
Bill Freeman
Bob's Brother
Original e-mail:
Bob suffered some major setbacks this week. He has been hospitalized 3 or 4 times since his cancer surgery on December 5th, with bleeding, infections and a blood clot in his leg 4 weeks ago. He finally went back to work last week at the high school, but on Tuesday, his femoral artery started bleeding out while he was teaching. The cancer, as we knew, had attached to the femoral artery and the surgeons were unable to completely remove it in December for fear of paralyzing him from the waist down, or, worse, resulting in amputation of one or both legs. His frequent re-hospitalizations delayed commencement of the the chemo treatments, and since they could not radiate the spot because it was generally in the same spot it was radiated 15 years ago, the cancer grew on the artery, causing it to weaken and resulting in the bleed out through the wound in his upper thigh, which was the site of recent surgery caused by the infection.
Anyway, he was rushed to the hospital from the school after student assistant, whom I believe is named Johnny, and fellow instructor Vern Matthews heroically helped stop the bleeding, and after every administrator and on site emergency personnel rushed to his aid. He lost consciousness before being transported to the hospital by paramedics, but, from what he recalls, he wasn't out too long. He then had major surgery Tuesday night to stop the artery from bleeding, which appeared to be successful. He was transfused that night after at least three pints of blood and 2 pints of plasma were given by transfusion. His hemoglobin count, which should be 14, was down to 7 when the ambulance delivered him to the hospital. He was so cold, at one time he was covered with 10 blankets which were being warmed up in the microwave. Fortunately, his oldest daughter Brandi works in the same emergency room at Kaiser Fontana where he was admitted, so the entire staff went well beyond the call of duty in providing for his care.
After the surgery, the vascular surgeon, urologist and oncologist were to meet today (Thursday), to develop options for Bob's treatment. Then, they were to meet with Bob and Shelly this afternoon to present the options to them. Of primary concern was if they were very aggressive in repairing the artery and removing more cancer, there was a distinct possibility that he could lose one or both legs (amputation) and part of his hip. So, they were to be faced with a major quality of life decision. But, fate intervened, and yesterday (Wednesday), the artery started bleeding out again through his infection wound in the groin area. He was rushed back into surgery last night at 8:15 p.m. and was in surgery for 6-7 hours, with the leg amputations being a distinct possibility once again. Fortunately, the surgery went better than we all expected and the docs were able to completely remove and repair the damaged artery, replacing it with a synthetic one, with no loss of legs. The surgeon said that the cancer had so weakened the artery that it was ready to burst, so it appears as though the second bleed out actually saved his life. He did note however, that the cancer had grown in that area and that the urologist is recommending to oncology that chemo begin very soon, irrespective of the wound not being healed. Speaking of the wound, in the past operations, the surgeons were able to close the wound, but it had to be repacked at home every day by Shelly and the girls. This time however, for reasons I do not yet know, they were unable to close the wound, so the question of how and where it will be managed is still one to be addressed.
A number of people have asked about visitors, flowers, cards etc. He is in a lot of pain and as Shelly told him this morning, he is alive and he still has both legs, which is something we all were not too sure of just last night. He is unable to have visitors other than immediate family, but I know he sincerely appreciates cards and other tokens of concern. He is currently in ICU at Kaiser Foundation Hospital, 9961 Sierra Avenue, Fontana, CA, 92335. His home address is 17410 Orchid Dr., same city and zip. And of course, the power of prayer is the most potent offense we can mount to assist him in this most difficult time.
So anyway, I think I covered everything and I hope I got most of it right. His situation and condition has changed so dramatically and so drastically over the past few days that all I can say this is the best info (and I hope, correct info) I have right now.
Take care, thank you so much for your past support and please remember Bob's entire family in your prayers.
Bill Freeman
Friday, February 6, 2009
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Bob we love you! You have many followers and we are all routing for you. You have touched many lives including mine. You are truly my hero! Your going to beat this! You have an angel on your shoulder looking over you, that was proven this week.
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Amy
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.SEE YOU SOON.
ReplyDeleteDAVE JACCARD
Bill, thank you for setting this up. It will help tremendously with information sharing. I know students and staff are inquiring and concerned. Bob has the widest circle of friends of anyone I have ever known! All these positive thoughts and prayers can only help. You are right when you say Johnny and Vern Matthews stepped up to help Bob in a commendable fashion. Like Johnny said, "I had to help my teacher!" We all know that Bob is more than a teacher to his students. He is a loved man.
ReplyDeleteSusie
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteCelia Breslin (Jodi's Friend and Co-worker)
Uncle Bill...I wanted to thank u for creating this site... It to also helps me!There are times when the doctors are talkin and I can't remember everything! So now I can come back and read everything and be able to put everything together1!Thank you everyone for all your love and unconditionalSupport..
ReplyDeleteThank you for the update. Please tell him that Mike Andrus was checking on his progress. I will see him soon. Thanks again.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the update. Please tell him that Mike Andrus was checking on his progress. I will see him soon. Thanks again.
ReplyDeleteBob,
ReplyDeleteWe are pulling for you and look forward to seeing back on your feet soon. While there are kids to coach and teach I need you back for selfish reasons. I'm at a loss without your words of wisdom and concern on school board issues. Hurry up and get well!
Gus....and Terri
Hey Bob,
ReplyDeleteI talked to Shelly last night tring to figure out how to get on your blog page. If I were twenty years old I could have done it a lot sooner, at least that my excuse for now. I hope today is a good day for you. Since I go to church every Sunday now that I'm "married", I said a few extra prayers for you & your loved ones today. Joyce & I hope to be in your area towards the end of the month for a visit. I'll bring you some of my favorite beef jerky. I talked to David the other day & he seems to be doing pretty good. You heal yourself quickly & get home so you can take care of Shelly. She was the one that was supposed to get the extra care after her last procedure. Take Care Bob & keep the doctors & nurses laughing.
Love you man!
Mark & Joyce
We're rooting for you Bob ;and NO when you're feeling better we don't want to see it.................
ReplyDeleteTruly get well soon I know how they miss you at Miller
Bill thanks for setting this up, its a great idea.
Sue & Joe
Bob we are prying for your quick recovery we just want the old Bob back and healthy again
ReplyDeleteSparky and Jo
Hi Bob - You have so many people who are concerned and are thinking of you. I have never seen a person with so much love and support. You are such an inspiration to all of us and if anybody can beat this awful disease, I know you can. You, Shelley, Brandi, and Jodi are in my heart. You guys have been amazing friends to have and I love you both.
ReplyDeleteBrother Bob:
ReplyDeleteYou, Shelley, Brandi and Jodi are in my prayers. You were always an inspiration to me in my early years as a trainer at the old Laborers School, and you continue to inspire not only me but countless others through your example right now. You are a fighter and always have been. I love you brother! Give em hell Bob!
-George McCoy
Daddy Bob.. I can't wait for you to read these comments! There is not a second of the day that you are not thought of. While you are in there beating the odds, all of us are here hoping for the best and trying to keep the girls strong. I know that is all you would ever ask for, is for everyone to take care of your ladies at home. You just worry about getting better we'll take care of the rest!
ReplyDeleteI miss you and I love you,
Case~
Hi Bob. OK. OK. OK.....I'l give you Jimmie Johnson and take your good-for-nothing- driver Jeff Gordon if you promise to get well soon. Hey, come to think of it, you better get well soon... you owe me a hundred bucks! :) Hey pal, we are praying for you and hope you will be home soon. Tom and Sharae
ReplyDeleteHello Bob, I have been praying and thinking of you everyday. I'm so happy you are up and walking around but don't push yourself! I will let everyone at the School Police Department know how you are doing. Take care. Love ya, Officer Cindy Evaro
ReplyDeleteSee, we all knew you could do it...I know the next update from Bill will be that you are RUNNING around the hospital causing all kinds of trouble.
ReplyDeleteSee you soon...
Curt and Denise
Hi Cousin
ReplyDeleteWell-After your Brother Bill-I guess I've known you longer than than anyone else, since I'm the oldest son of your Moms younger Brother. I could tell stories but Bill did say this blog is to remain G rated. It's been a series of long intervals between our seeing each other-mostly because it seems we on the east coast let those on the west coast travel to us more than 3 to 1...Bob-Your the oldest of the cousins and loved by us all. I can see by the many comments that you're still the same person I knew in my early years-fun loving, caring, committed and determined. Stay that way. I'll see you soon Bob
Mike Sexton
The Agostini family sends their love and well wishes to you, "Mr. Freeman!" (Christopher and Dominic are stationed on the same ship together in Washington state and are kept updated on your progress, as well as Nick while he's working for Northern Ariz. Fire District). Chris said to tell you and your family he's keeping you in his prayers. Augie wants to know when you're inviting him to your next barbecue? Can you feel the love? We're all thinking of you and hope to see your smiling face and hear your infectious laugh again soon.
ReplyDeleteHey Bob,
ReplyDeletejust wanted to let you know all of us in northern ca. are praying for you,get better my sister needs you.P.S. can I have your bag of @#$$S just kidding Bob see you soon
David A Dietz &Family
Bob, please know that we are thinking of you. I know a lot of times people say this but our thoughts and prayers are with you - it's not lip service. Sloan speaks of you often and she seems to be doing well. Glad you are showing improvement - really wish that we could be there. We think of all of you often. Rest in the arms of your loving family for the support they can give. Cara, Sloan and Kathy
ReplyDeleteHey Bob,
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to say hello and wish you well. We are all thinking of you and praying for you. You have a great wife, wonderful daughters and a great family to support you, but you have to know that you have a million friends who love you and are hoping and praying for the very best outcome.
I have so many memories of you and Shelly, parties at Vicki's, and having a lot of fun all the time. You and Shelly are special to me, and to many.
Bob, Shelley, Brandi & Jodi - take care.
Love,
Jan
Hey there Big Dog.I heard that u were in the hospital again.Sorry to hear that,I'm praying for you everyday and everynight.Bob,I hope you get better real soon so that you and your brother Bill can make the Angel's spring training in Arizona ya'known. Bob to make sure your alright,I talked to God and he agreed to let me stand guard with him so that we both csn watch over you while you make A quick Recovery!!
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